Vanzant then went and had a conversation with her brothers, Emjay and Joey. You have to look in the little machine and they say do you see the green and the blue—it was so quite exciting and then you go from that office to the other office and you—they say I’m going to test you for glaucoma and you stick your eyes in the other thing and poof they spit some stuff in your eye, they don’t even tell you it’s coming— so now you can’t see maybe you don’t have glaucoma, but you have powder in your eye to let them know you don’t have it. And that’s because of the way I think about women.I am committed to the universal healing of women. Pull it down. We have to stop allowing people to be in our lives in inappropriate ways.When we don’t have clear boundaries, when we don’t speak our boundaries—do ya’ll have pencils and paper?This is being taped right?Buy the tape. Pray for your sister, not for yourself. Wait a minute. Break your fingernails. Let me just say you look good. Say it loud if you have to. I said Africa and nobody said nothing...All right.Bulgaria...Is that amazing?Seattle?Germany.Seattle and Germany on this side.This is a nice mix over here. It don’t matter that Booboo left you or Fifi ain’t coming back. I’m talking spirit. Be willing to let things go," Vanzant explains. There’s a business that, that power wants you to open up. If you have some party shoes, get in it and dance.That is a woman’s work.A woman’s work is to dance.You know, you can dance yourself through anything—you wanna leave me Booboo, go on, get out...Oh, yes.Oh, you want to fire me? And your poem and your glory.This is about you, and the spirit in you.There is a spirit waiting to answer your question that you don’t have the courage to ask. So now I go in, they have all kind of modern technology. Pull it down.Whatever you need, reach hi pull it down.Reach up. Pause to celebrate the victories. Angel in drag, that’s right. Businesses, Non-profit organizations, event planners and companies across the country have worked closely with our booking agents to hire Iyanla VanZant for a speaking engagements, guest appearances, product endorsements and corporate events. To order the CD of this speech or to purchase other CDs from this event, please click here. Okay?This is about you.This is about you.It’s about the—let me be nice. Because if we don’t get hugged, we get ugly. No. And don’t you look left or right now. What a blessing to stand on the planet as a woman, a creative and divine instrument of the infinite intelligence of life.They tried to silence us, but TADA.They tried to hold us down, but TADA. How long? Monday. They should have been here, but they had too many issues. We … Oh, you thought I was going to fail? Stop creating drama because you’re bored. Two people. That’s where my mother is from. And, it’s about you.This is about you. This is about you. Slower. What are you doing?Nigeria? This is about you.And there’s a spirit in you that knows exactly how you are to take the next step to get to where you need to be.But if you don’t touch that or tap into it, be present to that spirit, you’re out there on your own. And if your heart isn’t open, joyful, loving, peaceful, then it means you can’t really see.This is about you.This is about you. Even my grandma had to admit that I was the only one who could make him smile, even though she considered my antics annoying. Oh, yes. This is about you, and the spirit in you. Stand up. If you’re still talking about it, it’s about you. And when we don’t know what we know we need to do, we create drama to keep ourselves from being bored. Are you still mad at booboo because he left you at 56, upset with your mama because she gave you generic cookies?What is going on in your heart? Yes. I want to tell you a quick story before I talk to you about your heart.I love a sale.I don’t care what’s on sale.If it say sale, I have to be here. Get in touch with your spirit. I don’t mean Long Island. In so many areas we have been first and we will be first and we will continue. Let people know what is or is not appropriate in your life, in your life. This is about you. You’re just so powerful, so beautiful, so magnificent. They should have been here, but they had too many issues. Pray that their dreams come true. Find The Good And Praise It  Iyanla embodies a no-nonsense approach in her message and teaching style. It’s about our evolution. Here is an example of how a bypass can play out in real life. So they examined my grandson’s eyes.I hadn’t had an eye exam since they did those “E’s”, that how long it had been since I had an eye exam, because I can see everything or so I thought. I’m excited about myself, so you know I’ve got to be excited about you. Jamaica? The healing that you can speak.This is about you. I want to demonstrate it to you.This is not a strong NO: Um, no.People are going to walk over you when your No looks like that.Or, um, um, no. So many of us are hypnotized by the nice girl syndrome. Thank you most of all, not only for our greatness, for our divinity, for our sweetness, for our beauty, for our power.Thank you, God for chocolate! Born there? Throw it away!Stand fully in your 12,14, 16,18.Let me tell you this.As long as there’s a size bigger than the one I’m wearing, I’m okay.You understand? Start with a friendly greeting like “Dear … Stay standing in your truth.Drama queens, take a breath.I’m going to over correct here. Tell her what you’re praying for. And just because it feels good, let’s give ourselves a hand. I had to force myself to remember the number of times I sat with my brother, nurtured him, and cared for him after he had an asthma attack. And if you’re not doing that, it’s about you. Because when we don’t use our voice to announce our no. 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